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Holiday Scripts for Neurodivergent People to Help Prevent Nervous System Overwhelm
Neurodiversity-affirming Scripts from Heartstone Guidance Center The holidays are often framed as joyful and connective. For many people, they are also loud, unpredictable, emotionally charged, and deeply dysregulating. If you are neurodivergent: autistic, ADHD, living with PTSD, anxiety, or some combination of the above, holiday gatherings can overwhelm your nervous system quickly, even when you care deeply about the people involved. At Heartstone Guidance Center, we take a.

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Dec 23, 20253 min read


6 Jungian Principles That Can Transform Your Inner Life
A Neurodiversity-Affirming Guide to Healing, Shadow Work, and Authenticity Carl Jung understood something essential about human nature: we’re not designed to live as tidy, one-dimensional beings. We’re layered, emotional, symbolic, and full of contradictions. And when our inner world becomes misaligned, everything else begins to fray including our relationships, our health, our identity, even our sense of meaning. For neurodivergent people, especially autistic and ADHD indivi

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Dec 10, 20254 min read


Healing Social Trauma in Neurodivergent Individuals: Strategies for Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and Rejection Sensitivity
Social trauma can leave deep marks on anyone, but for neurodivergent individuals, especially those with ADHD or autism, the impact often runs deeper and shapes many parts of life. Experiences of misunderstanding, exclusion, or judgment in social settings can create lasting wounds. These wounds influence how people relate to others, how they see themselves, and how they handle feelings of rejection or self-doubt. This post explores how social trauma affects neurodivergent indi

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Dec 10, 20254 min read


Forms For Protecting Client Privacy: How to Keep Your Autistic Clients out of RFK Jrs Autistic Data Base
Ninja Therapist Protecting Autistic Client's Personal Data Revoking a Release of Information Minimum Use Form Staff Instructions for a...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Apr 23, 20251 min read
🛡️ We Will Not Comply: Our Response to RFK Jr.’s Fascist Plan to Target Autistic People
Angry Girl Refusing to Comply with a Fascist Autism Data Base by Heartstone Guidance Center There are moments in history when silence is...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Apr 23, 20253 min read


🌞 Neurodivergent Friendly Strategies to Help You Wake Up & Get Out of Bed in the Morning
Autistic Woman Waking Up from Pleasant Dreams 🛑 First Principle: No shame if it’s hard. Neurodivergent brains (autistic, ADHD, PDA, OCD,...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Apr 18, 20253 min read
Response to RFK Jr.’s Ableist Comments on Autism
Autism is Beautiful and RFK Jr is an ableist jerk As an autistic therapist who owns and operates a thriving private practice staffed by...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Apr 17, 20252 min read


**Empowering Transgender & Nonbinary Safety & Wellbeing in Challenging Times: A Practical Guide**
Transgender and Nonbinary strength, power and safety As the social and political climate grows increasingly hostile toward transgender...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Apr 16, 20253 min read


Clinicians Take Note: PDA Is Autism Not ADHD
A vibrant expression of individuality and courage, this young Autistic PDA child with rainbow-hued hair embodies defiance and beauty,...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Apr 14, 20253 min read
🌿 Autistic Flow, Energy Regulation, and Avoiding Burnout: A Guide for Supporting Autistic Lives at Work and School
Autistic women in a state of autistic flow, avoiding burnout traveling on rainbow seas with a friendly octopus Most people are familiar...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Apr 9, 20254 min read


Why We Celebrate Autism Acceptance Rather Than Autism Awareness
Celebrating Autism Acceptance Month with a vibrant illustration: a majestic whale soars above a colorful rainbow, symbolizing diversity...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Apr 3, 20253 min read


How Neurodivergents can Recognize and Defend Against DARVO When Partners Engage in Narcissistic Behaviors
How Neruodivergents Can Defend Against DARVOS when Partners Engage is Narcissistic Behaviors DARVO is a powerful tool used by narcissists...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Mar 5, 20254 min read


Neurodiversity-Affirming Sleep Strategies - Compassionate Self Care for ADHD, AuDHD and Autistic Night Owls
CBT-I Alternatives for Neurodivergent People AuDHD, ADHD, Autism Sleep Plan - Compassionate Self Care Guiding Principles Sleep is a need,...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Mar 5, 20253 min read


The Neurodivergent / Autistic Guide to Maintaining Mental Health and Resilience In a Stressful World
Neurodivergent Autistic Fascist Government Survival Guide Prioritize Sensory and Emotional Regulation Create a safe space where you can...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Jan 27, 20252 min read


Understanding and Treating ARFID Through a Neurodiversity-Affirming Lens
By Amy Duffy-Barnes, LMSW Clinical, Licensed Clinical Therapist at Heartstone Guidance Center Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Oct 18, 20245 min read


Understanding the Intersection of Racism, Capitalism, and Autism
In our complex societal landscape, the interplay of race, class, and ability often shapes the experiences of marginalized communities. As...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Oct 2, 20243 min read


The Obligations of U.S. Public Schools to Provide Special Education Services to Neurodivergent Students, Even if They Are Getting Good Grades
"Not only are these children getting left behind, but some schools seem to be purposefully running them over with the school bus. As a...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Sep 10, 20245 min read


The Impact of Capitalism on the Neurodivergent: The Importance of a Neurodiversity Affirming Framework Including Intersectionality with the BIPOC and LGBTQIA2S Communities
Understanding the Neurodiversity Affirming Framework The neurodiversity affirming framework is a progressive approach that acknowledges...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
Jul 27, 20243 min read


Rage against the Dimming of Our Light An Ode to the Neurodivergent
Do not retreat forever into bright and gentle minds, resist the urge to stay hidden in safer space. By following our minds' swirling...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
May 27, 20241 min read


The Shortcomings of "Autism Spectrum Disorder Certified Specialists" as Therapists: A Neurodiversity-Affirming Perspective
*All of Heartstone Guidance Center's therapists who see autistic clients are autistic. As licensed mental health professionals who are...

Amy Duffy-Barnes
May 16, 20243 min read
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